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We have all done it. You promise yourself that you won’t make that dumb mistake again, only to realize you are doing the exact same thing you vowed to avoid.
Learning form our mistakes is a challenging thing to do sometimes, especially when it is an old habit or something you are good at doing.
But you can stop this cycle and turn your mistakes into life lessons with a few strategies.
Here are our top four ideas for learning from mistakes.
1. Own Your Mistake
The first step in being able to learn from misfortune, setbacks, or failure is owning your part in whatever happened. You must acknowledge your role in the situation or your decisions that let to where you are now.
Until you accept this, you will not really be able to learn much of anything.
NEXT, you should apologize to those who were hurt or affected by your actions and be sure to let them know that you plan to do whatever you can to make the situation better.
Being honest about your fallibilty is hard but shows people you are trustworthy and committed to finding solutions.
2. Analyze What Happened
When it comes to mistakes, there are often many factors that went into the eventual outcome.
You need to spend time investigating what actually happened, where things went wrong, and what you can learn from the events to inform future efforts.
- What would you do differently if you could go back in time?
- And now that you are here, what will you do moving forward?
Look at those things within your control, as well as those that are not.
How can you mitigate those uncontrollable forces?
3. Reframe the Experience
Viewing mistakes as learning opportunities is a crucial step toward having a growth mindset.
The way you view your errors and failures determines your response, so if you only see these as negative, then your reactions will be negative, as well.
You have acknowledged your role in the mistake, so now you need to turn to what you can learn.
- What knowledge can you gain that will help in the future?
- What can you learn about yourself that you can work on as you continue to grow?
- What opportunities exist now that didn’t before?
The more you can see the positives in your mistakes, the better off you will be when it comes to finding a solution for them.
4. Do Something Productive
All the analysis, ownership, and self-reflection in the world does not matter if you do not do anything with your new knowledge.
Thinking about your mistakes isn’t really helpful unless you actually do something with that learning.
Otherwise, you find yourself right back where you started.
So, do something about it.
- Make a plan and follow through.
- Take steps to rectify the situation that has affected other people.
- Make amends.
- Do whatever you can to solve the problem.
- Ask for help when you need it, but do not allow another opportunity to go to waste when it comes to learning from your mistakes.
When you keep messing up in the same way, it is a sign that you are not learning from your past mistakes.
When you see these patterns of behavior, you need to break the cycle and try something completely different to get you past this hurdle.
Learning from your mistakes is hard, especially when it means admitting that you messed up to others, but it is the right thing to do and will help you develop a growth mindset that contributes to your ongoing development and self-actualization.